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-Mary

Well my name is Samantha and my ex boyfriend's name is Shannon. We broke up 2 weeks ago. He broke up with me because of a number of reasons including the fact that i don't let him have any time wit his friends. Which is not true because he is always around his friends! And because my friend Jesse is jealous of us because he has a crush on me.He controlled the relationship basically. He said dump Samm and Shannon did exactly the way Jesse told him to.  So eventually we fell apart. He said mainly because of the "drama" that i cause. It's non-stop and i can't control it. It seems that everything i do is reported to him some way. I want him back really bad and i wrote him a note, giving it to him and then he said no that he has to see me as a changed person to take me back. Where should i start with the whole changing process? ANd how do i stop the drama?

Dear Sam,

You should never have to change who you are because a boy wants you to. But if you really want him back you can try to become friends wite him. Friendships take time so you can't rush it. Afterwards you can try again... Until the the *drama* won't stop because you will still want him back really bad but he won't want you.. So try to start fresh as friends... Maybe that will help.

-Mary